Monday, August 10, 2009

Update

Hello! First off, my boyfriend M is doing well. He had surgery on his lung so another collapse is going to be nil. We're moving forward, and by October 1st we will be in our first apartment =)

I'm sorry for never updating (that is to those who even read my blog), and I hope no one got too worried. I don't know why I'm slacking with writing, it could be my busy schedule or that I feel I have nothing to talk about. And if I do it seems my energy is directed toward walking to my bed for some zzz's. Anywho, things are OK, not great, in terms of body-image wise. I'm heavier than I want to be, and I know these pounds are from being 'relationship comfortable.' Anyone been in that boat?

As for M, he wants to get in better shape too. More in terms of strength and cardiovascular, as his weight is low, and he could afford to gain at least 20lbs. We've been doing walks together, and I've taken him on my traditional 4 miler I like to do. We're doing our best to keep each other motivated.

Feel free to keep in touch with me via facebook, if you have one. I'm on there a lot!

2 comments:

  1. Sarah thanks for the update! I know the recovery period from surgery will be awhile, so hang in there. I hope this will help solve things for him and give him (and you!) a better quality of life.

    hugs,
    e

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  2. may you and M both be well. i hope he heals quickly and easily, and i'm so glad you don't have to worry about another collapse.

    take gentle care of yourself. i know what it's like to weigh more than you want. boy do i know that one. if only we could love ourselves in every form. our boyfriends don't mind the extra weight, right? why can't we relax??!!!! if only...

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